People fall into affairs rather than plan them. People jeopardize their family, their health, their safety, their social standing, their financial well-being for affairs — and violate their own strong beliefs when they cheat. It’s important to note that having an affair is a symptom of a mental health problem…

Brain betrayal happens every time you want to make success changes in your life without first programming your mind for that success. It’s like trying to force a particular software on hardware which is not compatible. During brain betrayal, your own brain resists any major adjustments that you may be…

Work at developing your whole life and then balance up every area through coordination. There is one thing every successful person must have. It’s the ability to be well coordinated in life. You see, beyond just being organized, being coordinated in life will always get you ahead of the line…

Friends, your character, your attitude and your behavior on a day to day speaks volumes about who you really are much more than what you think you are. I have come to realize that working with what I know about my true self, normally yields authentic results more than working…

“Stability is everything. Being it emotional or physical. You need a solid ground to build anything on.” Stability is all about being secure, consistent and anchored. When you are stable, you have peace of mind. There are basically three things that indicate a lack of stability in a person: i…

“Don’t be afraid of your fears. They’re not there to scare you. They’re there to let you know that something is worth it.” ― C. JoyBell C. ____________________________ I truly believe in going for the kind of success that makes me nervous and scared. I have learnt with time that…

Just like a builder lays brick upon brick to build, we are all building something knowingly or unknowingly. While some people don’t have the faintest idea of what their lives are culminating into, others have a bit of an idea, while others are fully cognizant of what they are doing with themselves. Yes it’s important to take action, but realize friends, that it’s one thing to take action…

Concentration — The ability to focus on your focus with everything you’ve got. ________ Friends, mere focus is not enough if you want success in life. Beyond just focusing, you need to concentrate. Often times, I lament, when I consider how this generation lacks this discipline of concentration. Unfortunately, this generation lacks the necessary levels of concentration that are required in order to…

“Pay close attention when advising people. Chances are, you are saying what you need to hear.” — Dr. Walubita Siyanga One quote says “Take my advice-I’m not using it.” The advice we give to others is the advice we ourselves need to follow but rarely do we take our own…