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ACTUAL CHÀNGE IS SILENT
Actual change normally happens in silence. It’s not loud or dramatic. The visible, loud and/ or dramatic manifestation of change is actually just the culmination or climax of a change that has already been taking place. By the time the change shows up on the front ground, it has already been brewing in the background.
E.g. A woman conceives in silence. By the time she says am pregnant, it is the manifestations that cause her to realize what has already happened.
A relationship ending is a manifestation of an already broken down relationship. When he or she says am leaving you, that is a manifestation.
Therefore, note that wisdom is to discern and identify the changes that happen in the quietest moments. It’s being able to deal with those undesirable changes before they have a chance to manifest. So please pay attention! Learn to notice changes in your wife/husband. Notice the changes in your boss. Pay attention to the changes in your children.
“Out of silence is born concentration, and from that comes learning.” — Stephen Hough
This is my encouragement today: In all you do, please remember to deal with the change at root level so that you don’t have to deal with it at fruit (manifestation) level.!
