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ARE YOU STABLE?
“Stability is everything. Being it emotional or physical. You need a solid ground to build anything on.”
Stability is all about being secure, consistent and anchored. When you are stable, you have peace of mind. There are basically three things that indicate a lack of stability in a person:
i. Addiction to drama. (Conflicts, disharmony and arguments)
ii. Addiction to things that cause harm. (Drugs, illicit sex, Alcohol.)
iii. A perpetual state of wavering and indecision.
Friends may I challenge you today:
- Married people, give your partner the gift of stability. You should never give your wife or husband a reason to doubt your faithfulness.
- Parents, give your children a sense of stability. Prioritize your family and stay home. Dear Mum, don’t let your children be raised by television or the maid.
- At work and in business, do things normally, patiently and in a predictable manner. Be ethical.
- To the unmarried, have normal and pure love relationships — Dont take short cuts. Sex before marriage complicates everything!
Finally, be accountable and answerable. Have solid values, principles and a sense of order about your life because a stable life creates opportunity for you to enjoy life in a more quality, consistent, fulfilled and long lasting manner.