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BE WHO YOU WERE BEFORE THE NEGATIVE STUFF HAPPENED!

Dr. Walubita Siyanga
2 min readJun 14, 2022

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“You need to learn how to continue being who you were before the negative situation happened.”

Going through a negative experience while pursuing your dream can be damaging and discouraging. Because of this, so many of us eventually give up on relationships, marriage, careers, business opportunities, and other worthwhile prospects.

So how do you press through the negative impact of your trauma and still do what you want to do regardless of the discouragement and fear? It’s simple. You need to learn how to continue being who you were before the negative situation happened.

I want to challenge you to refuse to be hypnotized, traumatized, and discouraged by the power of negative experiences. Choose not to continue to fear after you have feared. Refuse to back down after discouragement.

If the person is worth it, choose to continue to love them after you have been hurt. Stick to your passion as before even after your passion has become tired in your quest for destiny and purpose.

This ability to continue as before even after a major negative experience is what separates the weak from the strong. After all, what cannot kill you only makes you stronger. So, go and get that honey. Yes, bees will sting. Recover from the sting and then go back again with knowledge on how to avoid further stings but by all means, that honey must be acquired.

Continue being who you were before the disappointments, the hurts, the pain, the betrayals, the lies, the heartaches, and the trauma. Unless something or someone is not worth it from before the negative experience happened. Otherwise, go get your honey!

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Dr. Walubita Siyanga
Dr. Walubita Siyanga

Written by Dr. Walubita Siyanga

Training Consultant, Life Coach, Counselor, Motivational speaker, Branding/Media Consultant, TV/Radio Personality and Author

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