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STOP INVOLVING YOUR FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS WHEN MAKING HARD CHANGE OR GROWTH CHOICES
No one ever really feels like becoming more hard working or more disciplined. Friends, real and lasting change has nothing to do with emotions. It has everything to do with mindset change. Understand that you will never feel like stopping that bad habit once and for all, and you are never ever going to feel like making tough choices at all. Check anyone who makes an emotional choice about change or growth. As soon as circumstances switch, that person will go right back to their original change defiant self, because you can’t depend on your emotions or feelings to make permanent positive changes. So today I want you to wake up to the fact that doing the hard things and growing in terms of life is a function of your mindset. Not your emotions or feelings. You literally have to make an appointment with change or growth without involving or consulting your feelings. Once you SET YOUR MIND, then real change will take place. So do you really want to curb that bad habit? Well, then make an appointment with that change choice today and don’t involve your feelings. Do you want to become more disciplined or hard working? Then SET YOUR MIND and act in that direction. Do it today because the best time to change is always Now! Yes. Right Now!
Lastly, realize that your feelings and emotions are not designed to lead you. Your mindset on the other hand is what was designed to lead you. Therefore your actions based on mindset must always lead you. Also realize that your feelings and emotions are designed to be a support system for choices. Not the other way round.