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YOU NEED SHOCK ABSORBERS
A shock absorber is a mechanical device designed to absorb and damp shock impulses in a Car. When a car lacks shock absorbers it will bounce quite a lot and may roll, or dive excessively. All of these actions can make the ride uncomfortable. More importantly, a lack of shocks renders the vehicle harder to control, especially at high speed. Well friends, as it is with vehicles so it is with us in life. You see, life has rough patches and destiny sometimes has rough roads. Sometimes you cannot avoid the potholes in business, Marriage and Careers. So when those rough patches in life come, you need shock absorbers because Life is full of shocking situations. From betrayals, accusations, hatred, lies and manipulation to unexpected events such as the loss of a job, divorce, death and other misfortunes. Realize that in life, it’s not always what you expect that happens. Bad things do happen in life and things do go wrong sometimes. So if you lack shock absorbers, the shocking things in life can take you to your grave before your time. So what are some of these shock absorbers?
Shock absorber #1 — Realize that You are dealing with humans and humans are not perfect. They make mistakes and they can be selfish/self-centered. Never forget that!
Shock absorber #2- Have perspective. See things for what they really are. Do not be naïve. Be realistic. Call a spade a spade and don’t live in…
